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Today i went to popular. When i was browsing through some books at e chinese section, a title caught my eyes. It was le(4) guan(1) -> Optimistic. I picked e book up, and flipped e pages! I have not read much, just the first story. E first chapter is subtitled optimistic or pessimistic? N it kind of mentioned that its all up to oneself whether u wanna be optimistic or pessimistic.

I found the first story rather interesting!! Here it goes.....

This is how a piece of glass changes the life of a tiger shark. Dun think that the two do not linked... well actually... if u think far enouf... they might be linked.

There were tiger sharks living in the deep ocean. These animals spend their days preying of animals, and hiding from their predators so that they will not get caught by human beings. No animal knew the way of surviving in the deep ocean better than they do! This particular tiger shark was borned. It had no one to guide it along how to prey. It only can rely on its instinct. However, as it grew, it had more experience of how to hunt and it actually got better when hunting for preys.

Life was not smooth sailing though for this tiger shark, it got caught one day by the human. It does not mean it was a bad thing... Well actually, there are people feeding it everyday, and it need not worry abt hunting. Though the bad part was, it had to live in the small man-made pond.

One day, the people at the farm placed a piece of glass and separated the pond into half. On the other half lived the tiger shark. On the other half, they poured small fishes into it. Upon smelling food, the tiger shark swam fast, wanting to catch its prey. However, without knowing that there was actually a piece of glass there, it banged real hard into it! Not willing to be defeated juz like this, the tiger shark tried again! N of coz, it banged once again into the glass. It got hurt real bad after a few more attempts! It was bleeding.

After awhile, the glass was taken away. The fishes were now swimming freely in the pond. It watched them swam in front of its eyes. However, the tiger shark doesn't dare to juz swim up to it. If it had the courage to, it will hav a nice meal and need not starve.

After listening to this story wat had u guys learn?

hahaz, let's think abt it.

In life, it will not be smooth sailing always and definitely u'll banged into 'glass' or obstacles like that. No matter in which stage of life, obstacles will surface. The problem here is, will u hav the courage and be optimistic always and keep on trying to clear the obstacle in front of u? or u'll be like the tiger shark? after a few bangs on the 'glass', u dare not to do anithing again. Even if u're really very 'hungry'?

Life are always full of ups and downs. U'll faced a lot of obstacles in life and in the future. If u fell down, stand up again. If u fell from the ladder, climb up again. If u banged into something, do not be afraid, keep on trying and trying. Coz u'll nv noe when the obstacles will be cleared. If it was already cleared and yet u dared not do anithing, isn't it a real regret?? u juz need to try one more time to succeed!! People, nv ever give up and raise the white flag in front of the obstacles. On the contrary, u muz be even braver and fight it on. Whatever comes in ur way, juz tell urself 'I WILL BE ABLE TO OUTFIGHT IT' and something i really believe in is 'WHEN U SAY U CAN, IT MEANS U CAN!'

We onli live once this lifetime, we'll nv get the chance to go back in time. So whatever u wanna do, juz do it! Hav a goal and fight for it. No matter how tough the route is going to be, juz keep on walking yea! dun be like the tiger shark. Rmb, u hav to keep ur mindset to be optimistic, it definitely plays in part in helping u to muster up ur courage to fight the obstacles in front of u.

The chinese had a saying, shou(3) de(2) yun(2) kai(1) jian(4) yue(4) ming(2). It means after u had beared with it till the cloud is gone and the sky is clear, u'll see the moon shining brightly. I think little stories like that that makes ppl think and became clearer of their goals are really meaningful. hahaz, i'll try to post as mani of this as i can! Cya again!! got to sleep already!



This is life@
10:54 PM
♥Thursday, January 18, 2007





Elloz PEEPS!!! hahaz... i noe i had been slacking again!! 10 days nv update le!! naughty naughty! hmmm.... let's see where to start.... NYJC! okie... before 14/12/06... a few of us had been going for co practices in NYJC.... hmmz e ppl there are nice n stuff... after e result was out, i was posted to yishun junior college nohz... kinda sad yea... but appealed was successful so i'm in ny... hahaz...

Hmmm.... i'm in OG19... its a fun group wif fun ppl!! yep!! I enjoyed myself during orientation period! Mass dance doesn't seems fine at first... but later on it became better and better!! hahaz... disco night was crazy!! everyone was jumping ard like no body's business... lolz... i hadn't been that crazy for a long long time....

I had been looking forward to e actual starting sch... yep... i really was looking forward to that particular monday... However... things doesn't seems to be going on that smoothly... well... juz hope things will get better... Jas said today that things will go smoothly for sagis... hope wat she says will come true... Pessimistic has nv been my word... but all of a sudden... it had barged into my world. I'm trying to find back "optimistic" I wanted to smile... smile like i used to... but i jiu shi xiao bu chu lai... i can't find back e smile in e past... iszit coming back?? i'm waiting for it...

Somehow, i need a place to speak out my mind... and it seems like this little world of my own can help mi to do it... Sometimes things really happen too fast... so fast that i couldn't even find e cause and i find myself dealing wif e effects... I muz learn to move even faster... I cannot be slow always... i cannot always do and ask stupid things... i muz grow up... I cannot keep crying... i muz learn to be strong... i muz learn to control... i muz learn to be a better person... Ling will change for e better!! i promise you*

Life will be great, i believe, things will be right on track soon! =) i'll be waiting de!! wait wait wait.....



This is life@
9:32 PM
♥Friday, January 12, 2007





hohoz.... i noe i've been very very off contact wif my blog le... hmmm but i was really too lazy... not busy la... juz lazy to update... hahaz coz i dun really hav stuff to blog yea... hmm so muz find something then i can blog.

on 31/12/06, my cousin and i went for my cousin's performance... hmmm its sort of counting down... but not really those kind u ppl seen... except for the 10, 9, 8, 7 ..... part... yea... aniwae.. not gonna say much abt that... later i'll be seemed to be very biased.. okie.. touched on another part...

E ugly side of ppl
my cousin and i were going back from bugis as the performance place was at bugis... it was near to 1am. on that day e last train is on 1am yea.. okie.. at first we were waiting for the train in bugis mrt station... when the train came it was so nice.... lolz.. empty one... the ugly part came now. We alighted at city hall... lolz... ppl... close ur eyes and imagine. ONE WHOLE PACK OF PPL WAITING OUTSIDE E TRAIN TO COME IN! lolz.. those who hav taken a train b4 will noe, there are lines drawn on the floor right... lolz for ppl to go out from the train and for ppl going in.. lolz.. i think those lines are drawn for nth man... lolz the ONE WHOLE PACK OF PPL were juz outside, blocking e door of the train. lolz... my cousin n i had difficulty going out coz WHEN E DOOR OPENED!!! THOSE HORRIBLE PPL JUZ DAHSED IN!! DID NOT EVEN SPARED A SEC TO THINK THAT PPL ARE GOING OUT!!! CRAZY!!!! THEY JUZ CAME KNOCKING AND BANGING AND SQUEEZING IN... lolz.. i understand that there will definitely be lots of ppl coz its new yr eve and everybody had finished counting down... okie.. everything was understandable... wat seems to be so sad that is those ppl are like animals... i'm sorry to say that... lolz of coz i dun mean all... but juz those ppl... they dun care man.. they juz dashed in... lolz.. its very scary lolz.... i dunno how to explain in words... but can't forget the scene... singaporeans are juz so kiasu!!! lolz... i dun understand... this is a very bad thing... from wat i've seen from this incident!! n they are so selfish... haiz... i dun think this bad habit can be changed... no one can do anithing... maybe even e authorities also cannot do anithing...

well... juz wanna say here... spared a thought for others.... be more considerate... who noes u might be e one stucked in the train e nxt time rd...

so takkaire ppl... human can be so inhuman at times actually... lolz... of coz there are still kind ppl... so ... i am not saying all mankind are like that... yep... got to go and sleep... its rather late... i'll try to update one!!! hehez=)



This is life@
12:40 AM
♥Tuesday, January 02, 2007